Nowadays, Due to our Busy schedules we sometimes find it difficult to have a Simple conversation with our Children. Here are some of the Tips how to talk children, you can follow to break the Ice with your Child and dive deep into their World.
1. Use your child’s name :-
Physiology say Our name is no less than a Beautiful song to our Ears, With small Children thus happens the same, Calling them with their Nam makes them Attentive, Small children’s cannot concentrate on more than one thing easily, that’s why Call them by using there Name to get there attention Fast. E.g.:- Nick, Come and eat your Lunch.
2. Never Say No :-
I am not telling you to let your child do Whatever He/she likes, As parents we have to discipline our Child, But While talking to our child we must understand that Language plays a Major role your language says it all. Never use Negative Language with your kids. Negative language doesn’t necessarily mean Abusing or yelling but words such as :- No, Never, Don’t, Shouldn’t is not Good for your child Instead Give them the reason why they would not do these things, Give them reasons why they should not eat more Chocolates, This leaves a positive impact on your think and also makes them aware Why they shouldn’t do that.
3. Chat about relatable topics :-
Children love talking about their hobbies and favourite things. After you start Conversation with them Start talking about their Interests. You can talk to them for hours on their Topic of Interest. This could be Anything :- School, Favourite Cartoon character, Celebrity etc. Tell them to introduce to their Toys and Drawing books. The Topics are endless and as far As the conversation goes You get an Idea about your Child’s interests of Topics. Pets are also a Great and easy topic. You can ask them If they like a Dog / Cat, Tell them to show you their Pictures in Book. Ask they what he/she calls them.
4. Taking Advises :-
Children love to solve others problems. Share a Simple not too serious problem. Like, What do you think I should watch? Which Dress I should wear for the Party? Which Film should I watch? What I should cook for Dinner?
5. Appreciate your Child’s little little Efforts :-
In this case, Long Lasting compliments plays a Large role Appreciate there Work For e.g. :- Your child has Drawn something tell them How Good it is. These compliments are not merely compliments for them. Along with giving Compliments to them Actively participate in child’s activity, For e.g. :- Your child is Playing Dinner set ask them to make tea for you appreciate there little little activities. Specific compliments make a much big impact on them this helps them increasing their Confidence and knowing about their abilities. lastly,It will help your child to get more close to you.
6. Understand your child’s feelings:-
Compassion towards your Child is a very crucial part in Parenting. When you try to understand their Feelings they understand your’s Children are Innocent and Pure souls who needs constant Emotional support. Creating the kind of Understanding with your child may not be that Easy at some point of Time. For,Example Of your child is misbehaving with you, AS an Adult it is natural to get Upset and angry at them. But you need to understand that acknowledging their Feelings and behaving appropriately is important for their Development and Betterment.
7. Think like them to understand them :-
Before Reacting like an Adult, Try to see the situation from your child’s frame of mind. We often expect our children to understand adult-like ways of thinking and we don’t give consideration to how they might be thinking or viewing the situation. We always want our child to behave as we want them to but we fail to understand that We are not the Same, Children and Adults gave there own way of thinking and living life.
8. Avoid getting Angry on your child :-
Anger gas a very negative effect on the Child . Shaming a child diminishes their worth. Getting angry on your child is maybe, not a big thing for you but It has adverse effects on your child and diminishes there Confidence. For example, If your child by mistake Stretches on your Office File, Inspite of getting angry and telling him/ her That, You are the most Mis-behaved child .
Try to explain them the effect of his / her mistake on you. In this way your child will not only realise their mistake but also Never repeat them. I know there are times when we as Parents fail to calm ourselves and yells at our Children. But knowing that these things can effect them and make the condition worse We should try to avoid it.
9. Express your Love :-
Many Parents doesn’t give importance to this thing, Children’s do not understand Complexity they understand what you show them. If you are those Parents who thinks that behaving Strictly with your child, Will show them How much you care for them then you need to understand that This is completely Wrong. Children loves to express and they expect the same from their Parents. For, Making and Nourishing your Bond with your Child It is essential that You Express your Love to them.
These were some of the Tips from our Side Which will help you Converse with your Child in a Better way, Lastly As a Parent you should remember that Parenting is not a Difficult thing to do It is not a Task/ challenge but it is about Transforming Yourself to a Child and understanding your Child from Heart. Since, Children doesn’t know Brainy things and that’ why They are regarded as the Purest Souls.